Benita Weathers

Have you ever looked back on a decision and asked yourself, “What was I thinking?” Most of us have. Whether it was a financial mistake, a relationship we should have avoided, a missed opportunity, or words we wish we could take back, there are moments in life that leave us shaking our heads at ourselves. When asked what happened, many people respond, “I wasn’t thinking.” But the truth is, we were thinking. We are always thinking. The real question is: What were we thinking? Perhaps we were...

Have you ever had days, or even seasons, where you feel like your mind is everywhere, yet your progress is nowhere? You’re busy. You’re thinking. You’re planning. You may even be starting multiple things, but at the end of it all, there’s little to show for it. That feeling can be frustrating, discouraging, and even disheartening. But here’s the truth: this is not a sign of laziness, it’s a sign of misalignment. Many people today are living in a state of being mentally scattered. We are...

Have you ever had a moment where you paused and wondered, “Is this all there is?” You wake up. You handle responsibilities. You take care of work, family, bills, and obligations. Days turn into weeks, and weeks turn into months. On the surface, everything looks fine. But internally, something feels missing. Life begins to feel like a cycle of simply getting through the day. Many people are not truly living, they are merely existing. Existing means you are functioning, but not flourishing. You...